...There is an option in the settings where you can autobaud and config but that make the GPS unhappy also
That gps won't work any way except with autobaud and autoconfig. It doesn't have onboard flash to save settings so the revo has to configure it every time it starts up. I just dug out one of those tiny "OP GPS" units and hooked it to my revo. The settings below make it work. Because of the tiny antenna on that gps it takes it longer to get the sats and it doesn't do as well indoors as the full size gps units.
Which red-X on the gps are you talking about, in the system health area or at the top of the area that looks like an OSD? The one in the OSD area has a red-X over it until it has 7 sats in use. The system health one gets the red-X for no gps and turns orange for less than 7 sats. What does the gps area on the right side of the system tab show?
edit: It does have a battery and will remember settings (including bad ones
) for at least a few hours. If the settings below don't work by themselves you also might try unplugging it for a day and see if the settings below work after that. Autobaud/config is supposed to wipe out any existing configuration and set it up properly no matter what it's current settings are but you never know. When the battery dies it reverts to the factory settings.