None of the developers who've been online today remember anything like that, including several that were with OP for years before the split. If a bug report had been filed one of them would probably know. It may have been something that just came up in the forums and the developers never heard about. Or as you say, something from OPNG after the split.
Either way, I know of only two reasons to have the coordinator in the air:
The first is that some of the Chinese oplinks use clones of the Hope RF RFM22b modules that are off frequency, the bad ones I had were about 100 KHz high and even reversing roles didn't help them. I fixed them by replacing the RFM22b modules with real ones. Some of the ones that are off by a smaller amount can connect with the roles reversed if the air transmitter is closer to the correct frequency than the ground one.
The second has to do with telemetry for the OSD, if the air oplink is the slave and loses the connection to the ground the telemetry to the OSD stops too. If the air one is coordinator the OSD still gets telemetry even when the oplinks aren't connected. I haven't tested this for myself.
The second is a known limitation in the telemetry design and was probably discussed in the old forums. It may be what you're remembering. I miss the old forums, there was a lot of information in them. It's too bad they were erased instead of given to someone to keep online.
As far as I know unless you fly at distances where the RC transmitter and OSD video work but the oplink disconnects there's no reason to fly with them reversed.
Sorry for the long, rambling post, usually I only ramble on like this late at night when I'm bored...
-Hank