Thank you all for attention and helping!
It seemed that after I redid the radio transmitter calibration, then both motors starts and run just fine.
I really don't see how that has anything to do with it
But I have made no other changes to motors, wires, LiPos, fc output ports etc
B t w they don't start all times without the ground wire connected to the ESCs signal connectors. So I will keep that wire even-though it would be much nicer with only 6 wires (2 x 3-wire servo cables) than 7 wires running from the fc out on the wings to the tilt rotor houses.
I hope they don't break down so I finally can move on with this build.