That's why you should export your settings before trying it.
Another quick thing you could try is to take your P, double it, plug it into OP/LPTune calculator and try the values it gives you. The good thing about this is that if you want to tweak it, you just multiply all the PID numbers by something a bit bigger than 1 like 1.5 (if it feels mushy) or smaller like 0.75 (if it oscillates). Repeat till it is the best place between mushy and oscillation. You don't have to re-fly your UOV flight.
The simple method I described shouldn't be an endless search. Where does P alone oscillate? Cut that in half. Adding I, where does it oscillate (or where does it hold bank angles correctly if you can't get it to oscillate)? Back it off till it stops oscillating. If there is ringing, add D till ringing stops. At that point, if it isn't good, there may be a problem somewhere. It shouldn't need tweaking.
What ESC protocol are you using? You should be using PWM-490, PWMSync, or higher (= *Shot*). Slow ESC protocol keeps you from tuning high enough to get rid of the mushy.