Hi Dragonfish,
You mention in the movie that you tried calibrating using transmitter, librepilot, openpilot and nothing works. That sounds like ESCs just don't get calibrated.
In BLHeliSuite there is an option to enable/disable TX programming, if it's disabled, then it's not possible to calibrate ESCs over servo.
Since you tested different possibilities, I suggest checking what firmware is flashed to your ESCs and updating it. Hope that helps. If it's BLHeliSuite configurator also allows setting min/max PPM or shows if these values changed after calibration. If you have SimonK try updating it.
Hope that gets you closer to solving your problem.